Sunday, September 26, 2010

Does loneliness kill???

Some say its a great opportunity to be alone, it gives you the time to think, do a bit of soul searching and maybe decide a few things for yourself... But doesn't loneliness ever kill..??.Doesn't it kill your very existence??...Are we actually alive because of our family, friends and our social circle..??


Well this question has been in my mind for a few days, an unanswered question burning within...
Well a week to my self gave me the opportunity to try answering them...


Loneliness can kill you day by day, inch by inch..but then a point of time comes that you become so accustomed to the silence, the deadly silence..that it becomes rather odd to hear a human voice again.
I'm reminded of a story that i had read a while back "The Bet", about a young man who decided to live a solitary life just in order to win a bet, and that to not for a week but for 15years, while reading the story then, it did leave  me with a lot of questions definitely unanswered, and the same questions are repeating itself today but in a very different context, do we actually need  friends , family or a social life to survive?? does our very existence revolve around them??


The funny part is I haven't been able to find answers to these questions...I think its best to say that some questions are better left unanswered.......

5 comments :

  1. gr8 dear sis...keep thinking. frm my part i'v realized that humans are rarely solitary in nature.most of us wud b killed in loneliness.....

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  2. ummm... gud rashem..!! so tell us more abt that person..!! we sure can find some answers :)

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  3. loneliness,what i assume, is a state where u r all by urself and nt happy abt it. if thats the situation then the outcomes r bound to be negative. abt The bet it actually showed how much power books have but yes u have also inferred on an interesting way that he was so by himself that he dint want to meet anyone now

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  4. hmmm.....
    Rashel it is a good to think in this way but sometimes ur life happen to be in such a way that u r not left with other options....
    getting social is a very necessary thing in life but too much also create problems in this harpy world. Now it not the same as wat ppl used to be in earlier days, everyone is two or thee faced ppl, always seeking a chance to cut ur legs and then grow by stepping over ur head so it up to u how u take things and response to those situations... loneliness is not wat kill a person... the real cause is been unhappy.... if a person is happy being alone then he/she will enjoy that silence and if that silence is killing him/her then..... similarly, being with many ppl many be a gud thing but if ur not enjoying it or those voices are like noise to u then it is tym for a change...
    a person shld always follow his heart and search for divine happiness wat ever situation he/she want to be in.......
    for that story if u remember then in last that guy ran away just 15 mins before the tym and a letter with it, if not then search for it u might get some help ....
    this is my side of thinking rest is upto u....

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  5. shaurya its true...mayb its not ultimately loneliness that kills u..its d unhappiness associated with it...bcz if a person is happy being alone...den solitude wudnt kill him...
    tats defintely a new insight...luvd it..thxxx..

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